Life is an unpredictable journey, you never really know how or when you will meet your loved one, but when you get your love of life, you should give him/her proper appreciation for their contribution in your life. Ignoring someone’s true efforts can make that person indifferent and in most of the relationships this turns out as a key reason behind breakups. Many people do not even realize that they are ignoring their partner’s effort in their lives, so, in that case, I will suggest them to take some time to understand their heartfelt efforts.
When someone gives you unconditional love and support, they just crave for your small appreciation, it does not need any grand step, just a small gesture with utmost love is more than enough. No one like to be taken for granted, your continuous negligence can create deep pain in the heart of your partner and with time it will become the cause of death of your relationship. If you are in the side of the caregiver all the time without getting single appreciation, then it is the time to make the other side realize your value. Seeking attention is not the perfect way, it will show your desperate need or urge of being identified.
Maintaining your self-respect is the most important part of this stage, so, first of all, stop showing your emotional pain to your partner. And in the next step, you should stop doing all things you used to do for him/her for a long period of time. Learn how to say no, your ignorance will shock your partner and in no time you will see the change in attitude. Let them do their own work and through this process, they not only will understand your value but also realize how much time they used to save because of you. Use the extra time for the betterment of yourself and your pleasure. Self-love will give you the escape from the negligence of your partner when you start to value yourself you will start to see the change in their eyes too.
A relationship is all about equality, it not exactly equal every time, but it should be nearly equal. In a healthy relationship, you will get a proper amount of appreciation, respect, and understanding. Every day is not same for everyone, so, cooperation is very necessary. You should not suppress your partner or should not be suppressed by your partner. Always appreciate your partner when they do something nice to you, thus they can understand the value of these beautiful emotions. It is not possible to change everyone, but you should at least try once to make them realize the value of unconditional love and care.