May 31, 2018 Tulika 8Comment

There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love.” —Washington Irving

 

In this so-called contemporary society, human beings are meant to participate in the rat race of life. To survive in this world of drama, everybody has to do their best within the given deadlines. Stress, pain, workload, frustration everything are there at their own places, but you have to put on a plastic smile on your face every day. Nobody knows or wants to know how your mind is today, all that matters is how well have you done in your work today. Mental health issues are drastically increasing because we have stopped nurturing our own souls. We forget that there is a mind in us, who is a living being and has deep-rooted emotional feelings in it.

I am a person with a very strong emotional base in my mind, I can’t express in front of people but I got hurt very easily or I can feel others pain. Please Don’t think me that I am praising myself, I am just sharing myself here. I love to love and love to believe, but most of the time it has given me scratches on my soul. People say why are you so emotional, why your tears are coming? I can’t justify it, because I can feel very deeply, maybe they cannot feel that way. Most of the time, people like me are misunderstood and told that you are oversensitive, but it’s not a proper way to judge emotional souls. In this harsh world, we have a touchy heart that can feel, cry and console. For me, this is the best gift from God to me. Being emotional cannot be a sign of weakness in any way. So, if you are an emotional soul, don’t be shy, you are a gift from God to this earth. You can get hurt many times, but after trying also you can not hurt others, and believe me, that is your uniqueness.

Sometimes, I think, how could anyone break the trust of others. When we trust anyone, we give all the warmth of our souls to that person, the pain of betrayal is unbeatable and they don’t even bother. Since emotional souls are there on this earth, still the words like love, compassion, sympathy, care and such heartwarming words exist in this world. So, love unconditionally, cry your heart out and never be shy to say that you are an emotional soul. We cannot misbehave with anyone who hurts us, rather than we cry out that pain through tears. But always be careful to choose people before sharing a space in your heart. Your circle may remain small, but you will get bonds for a lifetime because people who understand your worth, they will never leave you alone. Love yourself and spread love..!!!   

8 thoughts on “Is being emotional a sign of weakness?

  1. This is actually an interesting topic . I always thought being emotional was childish and might prove me weak. Over the years I realised how childish I was thinking emotional is being weak.
    The real meaning and the value of emotions is only felt and that feeling is like gold dust.

    Anyways your write-up was awesome as always.
    Great going.

    Hope you start writing some food blogs soon.
    Waiting.

  2. Agreed.
    Human has been evolving with emotions for more than 7,000,000 years. Because Emotion has been needed. Our evolution haven’t thrown away “Emotion”.
    Anger can make somebody move. Crying can help you getting out of sadness. Happiness makes you feel better and that tell you something good happened on you and you should get to like it. etc, etc, etc…. emotions have important impact on us.

    Ultimately , emotion is just a chemical reaction in your body and we need the reaction.
    If you are emotional and easy to cry, it means you need to cry. You needed that chemical reaction. (I think It’s not only you, everybody needs it. Even some cool guys might hide it.)
    Being sensitive to your emotion means you are sensitive to your condition . That’s very good thing. You can get to know about you and others more.

    Thank you nice article. I’m happy to read it.

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